Partner-blind, not zero-knowledge
The server can read your answers. The person you pair with never can. Not their raw scores, not your hard-no list. Conjunction is weather, not a list of what they like. Limits stay in the engine so a rendezvous can avoid them. They are not a conversation starter. That is the trade: the machine keeps the list so your partner does not have to.
Answers stay. The constellation is derived.
We store one row per question you answered: the score, curious, hard no, skip, and any picks. The fingerprint you see is computed from those rows when the page loads. There is no separate fingerprint object. After a night is written, we also store the brief on our side. That is the product. Quest cards and Tonight faces are stored the same way, and those never went to a model.
No sentence, no model input or output, ever logged
A parse failure logs shape: how long the reply was, whether it looked like JSON. A provider error logs the status and an error code. Never the body. Never the prompt. Never a sentence you wrote. Anything that logged those would be a privacy bug, not a debugging convenience.
Nobody is reading the interview
There is no moderation queue, no support agent with a window into your account, and no review step where a person checks a night before you get it. The machine writes it and you are the first reader. Our own dashboard shows counts and pair status, never a sentence you wrote. Country and device appear there as totals, never next to a name. The one thing it does show beside an account is the setup answer about your body, because that decides which questions you are asked at all.
Which is why we need you to tell us
The other side of not looking is not knowing. If a rendezvous comes out wrong, ignores a hard no, or reads like it was written for somebody else, we cannot find that by going through your account. There is a note in your account for that, under Write to us. We read those on purpose. They never sit next to your answers. If you would rather not be signed in to say it, the box at the end of this page reaches the same desk.
Coarse facts, not a profile
Email is for signing back in, not a public identity. We also keep a country code and a device class, phone or computer, so we can see where the product is used. Page opens are counted as daily totals: the path with any id stripped, that same country code, and phone or computer. We do not count people. There is no analytics cookie and no visitor number. We do not store your IP or the raw browser string. We do not mix this with your answers, and we do not use it to retarget you.